ACTIVITY 3: CREATING GROUP RULES: NEEDS, RIGHTS AND RESPONSIBILITIES
For the basic principles of a human rights culture to survive,
people must continue to see a point in defending them: “I
have a right to this. It is not just what I want, or need. It is
my right. There is a responsibility to be met.” But rights
stand only by the reasons given for them and the reasons
must be good ones. Unless people have the chance to work
out such reasons for themselves, they will not claim their
rights when they are withheld or taken away, or feel
responsibility to defend the rights of others.
We have to see for ourselves why rights are so important,
for this in turn fosters responsibility.
Creating group or classroom rules
The importance of climate and the need for participation
and cooperation cannot be emphasized enough.
Each member’s suggestions and opinions are also very helpful
in creating the best group atmosphere. Be open to their
help and provide necessary changes.
The next activity is very significant because it has a direct
effect on group/classroom climate. It clearly demonstrates a leader’s or a teacher’s willingness to involve everybody in how the group/classroom is
run and his or her own trust in its members. It also makes
members think about what rules are desirable and possible in
the group/class, how they might be observed and the leader’s or teacher’s own
role in maintaining the group/class environment.
a) Group Needs
Group rules can be created in a number of ways: as a
brainstorm (paring down the results in subsequent discussion);
in small groups that then present their findings to a
plenary session of the whole group; or as individual assignments
that the leader/teacher collates for group consideration later.
A good way to begin is by asking people what they “want”.
Then ask them to choose from this list the items they think are really needed. They should end up with something shorter and much more
essential. List these on a chart labelled “Our Collective Needs”.
Finally, ask them to choose from their “needs” what
they think they have a “right” to expect as members of society.
List these on a chart labelled “Our Collective Rights”.
Ask why they have chosen as they have.
b) Group Responsibilities
Emphasize the essential connection between rights and
responsibilities. After participants have created the list of
rights, ask them to rephrase each right in terms of
responsibilities and list these in a separate chart labelled “Our
Collective Responsibilities” (e.g. “Everyone should feel safe in
this club” might be revised as “Everyone has the responsibility
not to insult anybody or hurt anyone’s feelings”).
c) Living with Rights and Responsibilities
Once the group has agreed on its lists of basic rights and
responsibilities, display them so that they can be referred to
or amended as necessary. Sometimes people
may break the rules or situations may arise that the rules do
not address. Sometimes conflicts may arise when club
rules are not compatible with the rules of other groups, partners,
other teachers, or the school administration.
These situations call for discussion and careful consideration
of why things are going wrong.
Order achieved by general consensus rather than simple control
is always harder to get, and the process of reaching this
consensus calls for compromise and careful negotiation.
Such a process is itself a valuable learning experience.